Skip to main content
    Marriage & Family

    What Does the Bible Say About Marriage and Divorce?

    What Does the Bible Say About Marriage and Divorce? God designed marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman; divorce is permitted in limited circumstances but was never God's original intent.

    Key verse: Matthew 19:6 (KJV)

    God designed marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman; divorce is permitted in limited circumstances but was never God's original intent.

    Share:
    Quick Answer

    God designed marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman; divorce is permitted in limited circumstances but was never God's original intent.

    "What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder." — Matthew 19:6 (KJV)

    The Biblical Answer

    Marriage was established at creation when God declared, 'It is not good that the man should be alone' and created Eve as Adam's companion (Genesis 2:18). Jesus affirmed this foundation: 'What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder' (Matthew 19:6). Paul compares marriage to Christ's relationship with the church (Ephesians 5:25-33), elevating it to a sacred illustration of divine love. On divorce, Moses permitted it because of 'hardness of hearts' (Matthew 19:8), but Jesus restricted it, saying 'whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery' (Matthew 19:9). Paul adds that if an unbelieving spouse departs, the believer is 'not under bondage' (1 Corinthians 7:15). While God 'hateth putting away' (Malachi 2:16), He also extends grace and restoration to the divorced. The biblical ideal remains a loving, faithful, lifelong union that mirrors Christ's unfailing love for His people.

    Topic Overview

    What Does the Bible Say About Divorce?

    What the Bible teaches about divorce, remarriage, and God's heart for marriage.

    Key Scripture References

    "What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder."
    "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it."
    "For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away."

    Frequently asked questions

    Frequently asked questions

    Related Questions

    Deep Dive Commentary

    For a more in-depth study, read our verse-by-verse commentary:

    Related Reading

    Continue your study with related content from across our library:

    Read it in context

    The answer above sits inside Matthew. The 365-day chronological plan reads it in the order the events happened.

    Read Matthew on day 284 of the chronological Bible reading plan

    Keep the verses to hand

    Every verse quoted in “What Does the Bible Say About Marriage and Divorce?” comes from the King James Version, free to download and print.

    Frequently Asked Questions

    Marriage was established at creation when God declared, 'It is not good that the man should be alone' and created Eve as Adam's companion (Genesis 2:18). Jesus affirmed this foundation: 'What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder' (Matthew 19:6). Paul compares marriage to Christ's relationship with the church (Ephesians 5:25-33), elevating it to a sacred illustration of divine love. On divorce, Moses permitted it because of 'hardness of hearts' (Matthew 19:8), but Jesus restricted it, saying 'whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery' (Matthew 19:9). Paul adds that if an unbelieving spouse departs, the believer is 'not under bondage' (1 Corinthians 7:15). While God 'hateth putting away' (Malachi 2:16), He also extends grace and restoration to the divorced. The biblical ideal remains a loving, faithful, lifelong union that mirrors Christ's unfailing love for His people.

    The Bible teaches that God is love, that He demonstrated love by sending His Son, and that love for God and neighbor is the greatest commandment.

    The Bible describes children as a blessing from God, commands parents to raise them in the faith, and records Jesus welcoming and blessing little children.